Sex Parties
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Sex Parties
For the purpose of this article, sex parties are paid for sex events, where individual men pay to attend and have sex with one or more escorts. Swinger parties, by contrast, are where all attendees are not paid - any contribution is for the organiser or venue, not to the others having sex. There is clearly overlap in real life, as Swinger couples or females may attend a sex party, and there could be some paid-for escorts at a Swinger party. There is also variation in whether all sex is in public, and whether the sex is like an orgy (MFF, MMFF and so on) or private. Men normally pay to attend the party, rather than pay to have sex with a particular girl.
Venue versus Organiser
For many parties, the venue and the organiser are the same. The Phoenix club has a lease on a flat, so the location is TPC, and TPC parties are at the location. In contrast, some party organisers (e.g. Fuck Club) book different locations for every party - even hotel rooms. Some of these locations are themselves Swinger clubs. So the venue may have Swingers parties on one evening, and Sex parties (perhaps managed by a separate party organiser) on different evenings.
Gang Bang
A particular party where normally 4+ men attend and there is only one escort. Any number of men and women is of course possible and a high ratio sex party can be a called a gang bang. High ratio sex partiers are also called 'Greedy Girl' parties and confusingly this is also the name used by one party organiser.
The Phoenix Club
It is difficult to talk about Sex parties in the UK without a particular mention of TPC (formally known as Lady Marmalade's Parties or LMP). That is because they have been having 3 parties per day, 5-6 days per week for many years. They thus have capacity for 4,000 men per year - so even if they only manage part capacity, this is likely more than all other sex parties combined. Many of the norms and questions about TPC will apply to other parties too. Even more amazing, a few years ago, they had 10,000 men per year.
The norms at TPC
There will be 4 women and 4 to 8 men. The men will shower and change into robes. The women will be in lingerie. All move into one or two room with a few beds and have sex. It is very common for a girl to give one man an OWO BJ, while another is giving her RO or sex. The men take breaks to recharge - the women take few, so there are many opportunities for 1-1 sex too. The girls have their own discretion so some kiss some don't. There is no MM interaction. There is infrequent FF interaction since the women are busy with the men. it is common for men to leave before the 2 hours is up, so any man left for the last 15 minutes may get the attentions of several women.
The norms at other places
LSP is much bigger (30 men, 8 to 10 girls) so has a different vibe. Still polite. But a bit more of a Swinger feel. Read some reviews.
FAQ
Q. What is is like being naked in front of other guys? A. Most men are worried about this prior to their first party. Almost all report that they concentrate on the girls and barely notice the other guys, so this is a non issue.
Q. What if fat/ugly/small dick? A. Normal guys attend of all ages shapes and sizes, and seldom notice each other.
Q. What about hygiene? A. All sex is covered, but there is only wet wipes between RO, kissing and OWO. Not for the ultra hygiene conscious.
Cost
TPC is £160 for 2 hours. Many parties are about this rate, indexed for time, ratio and quality of girl. Thus if the ratio is 3:1 a two hour party target price is about £100. The cheaper parties are often £80 - this can work out well if you attend on a quiet day, but could be a false economy if it is very busy, if the men are 'pussy blockers' or you don't fancy the women. At a small party with 3 women, the risk of not liking the particular girls is greater.
List of All UK Parties by organiser (not by venue)
Last updated November 2023
| Name | Location | Cost | Description |
|---|---|---|---|
| Adult Parties Mcr | Manchester | £150 2 hour | Friday at Noon. May be high ratio AW Page reviews |
| Bi Fun Club | Kings Cross London | £75 4 hours | New venue. Ratio high, many swingers and Tgirls AW Page rev1 rev2 rev Feb 20 external link New Venue |
| Cambridge Parties | Cambridge (& Reading & Birmingham) | £220 2.5 hour | Cambridge AW Page They are also Sexy Soiree These have 5 positive reviews Open. Was closed last year due to police action. |
| CosParties | various locations now | £120 2.0 hour | Cos parties page AW page Review Mar 22 A new party. We can only hope! scam warning for VIP |
| Domina Parties | London and E Mids | £150 | Fetish. CFNM and domination. |
| Greedy Girls Parties | Sutton (at Lady P's), Bristol, Brighton etc | £60 2 hours | aka Debbie's GG Parties. 15 parties per month day and eve, could be 40 guys and 10-12 girls. See their page for more locations.Sutton parties £100 and Kensington £120 |
| FoxxxParties | Leicester | £140 2 hours | AW Link 11AM and 2:00PM. Every month or so. Organiser says 3:1, Review says 4:1Nov 2021 Rev May 22 rev |
| Fuck Club | Leeds, London, Midlands | £130 2 hours | AW Link Reviews |
| Hedonistic MILF | Kent, Birmingham (at private club) | £80 3 hours | Their page Thread |
| Intimate Control | Dudley (at Valhalla) | £40 to £60 2 hours | Several parties a week organised by Intimate or girls like Harley 2-3 girls. And if lucky a swinger. This club has swinger events and sex parties, see diary. Rev Now closed |
| London Adult Party Club | Sutton & West London and Walthamstow on a Sunday | £95 for 3 hr 12 to 3 & 7-10PM Tuesday | Several Milf and size 14+ girls. Ratio could be 5:1 Swingers sometimes attend. Black girl parties mid afternoon some Tuesdays Link 3 girl parties now being held in West London once a month on Friday afternoons and evenings. No more parties at Sutton. Now twice a month on a Sunday at Walthamstow and one Friday a month in West London. |
| Libertines Anal Bonanza | Sutton | £100 for 3 hr. 12pm-3pm and 7pm-10pm First Thursday of the month | Girls open to anal. Poitier Link |
| London Sex Parties | Sutton | £140 2 hour now £160 with £40 deposit | Three parties per day.6 or 7 or girls typical. many guys. (stated max 4:1). Hosted by BBW Rebecca Ryder. At Lady P but not run by them. Review with pics May 2022 |
| Lady P's Brunch party | Sutton (House of Poitier) | £75 4 hours | 1st Thursday each month, 11:00 to 3:00. High ratio.No longer held. Replaced by two Partouze parties -3 hour porn star GB party for £100 on the last Tuesday of each month. On the first Tuesday of each month there may be a 3 hour Cougar party with older ladies |
| Monday Funday Party | Sutton | £80 4 hours | web page Three times a month plus an evening party once a month.8-9 paid girls plus swinger couples possible. Medium/High ratio. Review The contribution for these parties is now £65 |
| Oriental Angels Parties | Sutton | £100 2.5 hours | web page Medium/High ratio. Review The contribution for these parties is now £65 |
| SexyCarolinaParties | Croydon | £130 3 hours | review 3 Girl afternoon parties, 3:1 and not a full 3 hours. Also do monthly larger parties (9 girls ratio 2:1), but no reviews yet. TOFTT? Share girls with London Sex Parties. No longer active. |
| Splat Bukkake Party | WMids: Private Club or RedRoom or Bristol-Debbies venue | £60 2.5 hours | Review See also Private club events |
| XXX-Parties | Northampton | £120 2hours | Last Friday of month this brothel does 3 x 2 hr parties. Sometimes 3 hours but with high ratio. |
| The Phoenix Club | Baron's Court London-now Little Venice | £160 2 hour | 3 per day, Full 2 hours in party. Hold a MILF party, usually once a month. |
| The Private Club | Aston | £80 3 hours | ID required. The Private Club Oct 21 Rev Aug 22 Rev |
| The Fantasy Den | Walsall | £40 (+6mo membership £30) | Review New club (was Retro club). Typical 12 guys, 2 or 3 ladies for 3 hours. Has daily Events posted. They say: Bukkake Parties, Gangbang Parties, etc. ! 07977317205 May be managers from Retro. Now called Roxy's Den. |
| Swingers and Sinners | Kings Cross | £70 6 hour | Often 10 ladies may be up to 20 including playing swingers review New Venue. Now relaunched and held in venue near Kings Cross. Held every Thursday from 1 to 7 pm. Contribution £70 or £50 after 4pm link-https://www.swingersandsinners.co.uk/ |
| Unit 8 (Sheffield Parlour) | Sheffield | £110 3 hours | 2 Parties a month, 7-10 pm mid week Comment Reviews May 16 Nov 16 Jan 17 Feb 17 Oct 17 Dec 17 and Venue |
| XXX-Parties | Northampton(tours to Greenwich/Rotherham/Bristol) | £120 2hours | Last Friday of month this brothel does 3 x 2 hr parties. |
See Also'
- Splash Bash Water sports party in Canary wharf hosted by Gigi and Luiza
- https://birdsofparadise.club @BoPParties hosted by Busty Starr & Tory Jackson at various locations.
- Leia Organa and @MilfsNextDoor69
- @lustfulpartieshosted by Loulalou- held Basingstoke & Reading
- Samantha Mei
- The Cum team
- The Scarlet Rose
- Le Boudoir Club
- Nine pages of pics of many of the UK party girls
- https://www.greedygirlsparties.com -lists parties all over the country
- Horizon Parties
List of Closed Parties
Just saving so we can check easily if they re-open!
| Name | Location | Cost | Description |
|---|---|---|---|
| Bi Gangbang Parties | London (Southwark) | £100 2 hour | Ratio can be up to 5:1 AW Page reviews |
| Bella's Belles | Sutton | £85 2 hour | 6 ladies AW Page reviews |
| Double L Parties | West London | £150 for 2 hours. | Held second Tuesday of the month. 1 to 3pm &7 to 9pm Details on these profiles Leia Organa & I am Lou Now defunct, Leia holding monthly MILFs Next-door Parties details on Twitter. Loula holding Lustful parties at Reading & Basingstoke. |
| GBparties | Sutton (at Lady P's) | £150 2 hours | ration said to be 3:1, Porn Stars-not active |
| GangBang Swingers Party | North London | £100 for 2 hours. | A new party. Held Saturday of the month. 1 to 3pm & 7 to 9pm attendees include Tory Jackson a regular on the London party circuit |
| Lifestyle Gangbang Parties | South East and London | £80 to £100 2 hours | web UKP Thread 2 to 4 girls plus couples possible. High ratio. 2 hours includes 30 mins meet and greet. Review Now closed |
| London Swingers Adult Parties | Camden | £80 4 hours | 8 to 12 every night except Monday unless a bank holiday -3 girls, sex sequential 1-1s, |
| Pam's Parties | Crystal palace | Not open currently. | |
| Coffee Morning Paradise Spa | Dagenham | £50 5 hours | Mostly a swinger venue, but do their own sex parties ('coffee morning') Wed morning. Rev1 June 17 Coffee mornings and other sex parties not taking place due to Council action. Venue now closed |
List of specialist venues
| Name | Location | Cost | Description |
|---|---|---|---|
| Le Boudoir Club | London City | The venue A large BDSM type swingers club and venue. Greedy Girls party on Thursday's. Guilt Free Girls | |
| The Blue Door Dungeon | Islington | The venue Guess what, it is a dungeon. Book by hour. | |
| La Chambre | Sheffield | Single Man: £25 per person, Single Woman: £5, Couples: £25 | The venue Swingers club. |
| House du Croix | Bristol | £30 first hour then £25. | The venue A dungeon with optional resident mistress. |
| Hoxton Dungeon Suite | Hoxton N1 | The venue with optional resident mistress. Min booking 4 hour. | |
| House of Poitier | Sutton | The venue A large house in Sutton. Different events are here, sometimes hosted by others. (R Ryder's LSP, Trans events, etc) | |
| Kestrels | Heathrow | The venue a Naturist spa with pool and playrooms. See also . New Venue on Bath Road even closer to LHR. | |
| The Paradise Spa | Dagenham | The venue a Naturist club. Now closed | |
| Murder Mile Studio | Now Walthamstow | The venue a themed, fetish friendly photographic studio and dungeon for hire. | |
| The Peacock Parlour | London (Caledonian Rd) | £100/2hours | The venue A Dungeon |
| The Private Club | Aston | The venue an adult club. Requires ID to get in. | |
| Radlett Adult parties | Radlett (near Watford) | The venue a Swingers club. | |
| Rio's Naturist Spa | Kentish Town (London) | The venue a Naturist spa. Old page has more pictures. Rev Had a fire in Nov 2016 | |
| The Secret Dungeon | High Wycombe | The venue a dungeon. | |
| The Valhalla Club | Dudley (near Birmingham) | The venue a Naturist club. Above it, is Scarlets Now closed | |
| The Vanilla Alternative | Tempsford SG19 (between Bedford and Cambridge) | £20 to £40 for normal events. | The venue a Naturist club. Debbies GG had some parties here. |
| Top Floor Studio | Bristol BS15 | £25 per hour to use venue. Events priced by organiser | The venue a Studio. Some gangbang and swinger parties here. |
| Xtasia | West Bromwich | Swingers | The venue . Some gangbang and swinger parties here. |
- More specialest venues here https://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/
- See also Which are the better Dungeons for hire in London? July 2023
