Sex Parties

Sex Parties

For the purpose of this article, sex parties are paid for sex events, where individual men pay to attend and have sex with one or more escorts. Swinger parties, by contrast, are where all attendees are not paid - any contribution is for the organiser or venue, not to the others having sex. There is clearly overlap in real life, as Swinger couples or females may attend a sex party, and there could be some paid-for escorts at a Swinger party. There is also variation in whether all sex is in public, and whether the sex is like an orgy (MFF, MMFF and so on) or private. Men normally pay to attend the party, rather than pay to have sex with a particular girl.

Venue versus Organiser

For many parties, the venue and the organiser are the same. The Phoenix club has a lease on a flat, so the location is TPC, and TPC parties are at the location. In contrast, some party organisers (e.g. Fuck Club) book different locations for every party - even hotel rooms. Some of these locations are themselves Swinger clubs. So the venue may have Swingers parties on one evening, and Sex parties (perhaps managed by a separate party organiser) on different evenings.

Gang Bang

A particular party where normally 4+ men attend and there is only one escort. Any number of men and women is of course possible and a high ratio sex party can be a called a gang bang. High ratio sex partiers are also called 'Greedy Girl' parties and confusingly this is also the name used by one party organiser.

The Phoenix Club

It is difficult to talk about Sex parties in the UK without a particular mention of TPC (formally known as Lady Marmalade's Parties or LMP). That is because they have been having 3 parties per day, 5-6 days per week for many years. They thus have capacity for 4,000 men per year - so even if they only manage part capacity, this is likely more than all other sex parties combined. Many of the norms and questions about TPC will apply to other parties too. Even more amazing, a few years ago, they had 10,000 men per year.

The norms at TPC

There will be 4 women and 4 to 8 men. The men will shower and change into robes. The women will be in lingerie. All move into one or two room with a few beds and have sex. It is very common for a girl to give one man an OWO BJ, while another is giving her RO or sex. The men take breaks to recharge - the women take few, so there are many opportunities for 1-1 sex too. The girls have their own discretion so some kiss some don't. There is no MM interaction. There is infrequent FF interaction since the women are busy with the men. it is common for men to leave before the 2 hours is up, so any man left for the last 15 minutes may get the attentions of several women.

The norms at other places

LSP is much bigger (30 men, 8 to 10 girls) so has a different vibe. Still polite. But a bit more of a Swinger feel. Read some reviews.

FAQ

Q. What is is like being naked in front of other guys? A. Most men are worried about this prior to their first party. Almost all report that they concentrate on the girls and barely notice the other guys, so this is a non issue.
Q. What if fat/ugly/small dick? A. Normal guys attend of all ages shapes and sizes, and seldom notice each other.
Q. What about hygiene? A. All sex is covered, but there is only wet wipes between RO, kissing and OWO. Not for the ultra hygiene conscious.

Cost

TPC is £160 for 2 hours. Many parties are about this rate, indexed for time, ratio and quality of girl. Thus if the ratio is 3:1 a two hour party target price is about £100. The cheaper parties are often £80 - this can work out well if you attend on a quiet day, but could be a false economy if it is very busy, if the men are 'pussy blockers' or you don't fancy the women. At a small party with 3 women, the risk of not liking the particular girls is greater.

List of All UK Parties by organiser (not by venue)

Last updated November 2023

Name	Location	Cost	Description
Adult Parties Mcr	Manchester	£150 2 hour	Friday at Noon. May be high ratio AW Page reviews
Bi Fun Club	Kings Cross London	£75 4 hours	New venue. Ratio high, many swingers and Tgirls AW Page rev1 rev2 rev Feb 20 external link New Venue
Cambridge Parties	Cambridge (& Reading & Birmingham)	£220 2.5 hour	Cambridge AW Page They are also Sexy Soiree These have 5 positive reviews Open. Was closed last year due to police action.
CosParties	various locations now	£100 2.0 hour	Cos parties page X page Review Mar 22 July 2024
Domina Parties	London and E Mids	£150	Fetish. CFNM and domination.
Greedy Girls Parties	Sutton (at Lady P's), Bristol, Brighton etc	£60 2 hours	aka Debbie's GG Parties. 15 parties per month day and eve, could be 40 guys and 10-12 girls. See their page for more locations.Sutton parties £100 and Kensington £120
FoxxxParties	Leicester	£140 2 hours	AW Link 11AM and 2:00PM. Every month or so. Organiser says 3:1, Review says 4:1Nov 2021 Rev May 22 rev
Fuck Club	Leeds, London, Midlands	£130 2 hours	AW Link Reviews
Hedonistic MILF	Kent, Birmingham (at private club)	£80 3 hours	Their page Thread
Intimate Control	Dudley (at Valhalla)	£40 to £60 2 hours	Several parties a week organised by Intimate or girls like Harley 2-3 girls. And if lucky a swinger. This club has swinger events and sex parties, see diary. Rev Now closed
London Adult Party Club	Sutton & West London and Walthamstow on a Sunday	£95 for 3 hr 12 to 3 & 7-10PM Tuesday	Several Milf and size 14+ girls. Ratio could be 5:1 Swingers sometimes attend. Black girl parties mid afternoon some Tuesdays Link 3 girl parties now being held in West London once a month on Friday afternoons and evenings. No more parties at Sutton. Now twice a month on a Sunday at Walthamstow and one Friday a month in West London.
Libertines Anal Bonanza	Sutton	£100 for 3 hr. 12pm-3pm and 7pm-10pm First Thursday of the month	Girls open to anal. Poitier Link
London Sex Parties	Sutton	£140 2 hour now £160 with £40 deposit	Three parties per day.6 or 7 or girls typical. many guys. (stated max 4:1). Hosted by BBW Rebecca Ryder. At Lady P but not run by them. Review with pics May 2022
Lady P's Brunch party	Sutton (House of Poitier)	£75 4 hours	1st Thursday each month, 11:00 to 3:00. High ratio.No longer held. Replaced by two Partouze parties -3 hour porn star GB party for £100 on the last Tuesday of each month. On the first Tuesday of each month there may be a 3 hour Cougar party with older ladies
Monday Funday Party	Sutton	£80 4 hours	web page Three times a month plus an evening party once a month.8-9 paid girls plus swinger couples possible. Medium/High ratio. Review The contribution for these parties is now £65
Oriental Angels Parties	Sutton	£100 2.5 hours	web page Medium/High ratio. Review Comment that age for men is 25 to 55 and prefer slim. WTF!
SexyCarolinaParties	Croydon	£130 3 hours	review 3 Girl afternoon parties, 3:1 and not a full 3 hours. Also do monthly larger parties (9 girls ratio 2:1), but no reviews yet. TOFTT? Share girls with London Sex Parties. No longer active.
Splat Bukkake Party	WMids: Private Club or RedRoom or Bristol-Debbies venue	£60 2.5 hours	Review See also Private club events
XXX-Parties	Northampton	£120 2hours	Last Friday of month this brothel does 3 x 2 hr parties. Sometimes 3 hours but with high ratio.
The Phoenix Club	Baron's Court London-now Little Venice	£160 2 hour	3 per day, Full 2 hours in party. Hold a MILF party, usually once a month.
The Private Club	Aston	£80 3 hours	ID required. The Private Club Oct 21 Rev Aug 22 Rev
The Fantasy Den	Walsall	£40 (+6mo membership £30)	Review New club (was Retro club). Typical 12 guys, 2 or 3 ladies for 3 hours. Has daily Events posted. They say: Bukkake Parties, Gangbang Parties, etc. ! 07977317205 May be managers from Retro. Now called Roxy's Den.
Swingers and Sinners	Kings Cross	£70 6 hour	Often 10 ladies may be up to 20 including playing swingers review New Venue. Now relaunched and held in venue near Kings Cross. Held every Thursday from 1 to 7 pm. Contribution £70 or £50 after 4pm link-https://www.swingersandsinners.co.uk/
Unit 8 (Sheffield Parlour)	Sheffield	£110 3 hours	2 Parties a month, 7-10 pm mid week Comment Reviews May 16 Nov 16 Jan 17 Feb 17 Oct 17 Dec 17 and Venue
XXX-Parties	Northampton(tours to Greenwich/Rotherham/Bristol)	£120 2hours	Last Friday of month this brothel does 3 x 2 hr parties.

See Also'

• Splash Bash Water sports party in Canary wharf hosted by Gigi and Luiza
• https://birdsofparadise.club @BoPParties hosted by Busty Starr & Tory Jackson at various locations.
• Leia Organa and @MilfsNextDoor69
• @lustfulpartieshosted by Loulalou- held Basingstoke & Reading
• Samantha Mei
• The Cum team
• The Scarlet Rose
• Le Boudoir Club
• Nine pages of pics of many of the UK party girls
• https://www.greedygirlsparties.com -lists parties all over the country
• Horizon Parties

List of Closed Parties

Just saving so we can check easily if they re-open!

Name	Location	Cost	Description
Bi Gangbang Parties	London (Southwark)	£100 2 hour	Ratio can be up to 5:1 AW Page reviews
Bella's Belles	Sutton	£85 2 hour	6 ladies AW Page reviews
Double L Parties	West London	£150 for 2 hours.	Held second Tuesday of the month. 1 to 3pm &7 to 9pm Details on these profiles Leia Organa & I am Lou Now defunct, Leia holding monthly MILFs Next-door Parties details on Twitter. Loula holding Lustful parties at Reading & Basingstoke.
GBparties	Sutton (at Lady P's)	£150 2 hours	ration said to be 3:1, Porn Stars-not active
GangBang Swingers Party	North London	£100 for 2 hours.	A new party. Held Saturday of the month. 1 to 3pm & 7 to 9pm attendees include Tory Jackson a regular on the London party circuit
Lifestyle Gangbang Parties	South East and London	£80 to £100 2 hours	web UKP Thread 2 to 4 girls plus couples possible. High ratio. 2 hours includes 30 mins meet and greet. Review Now closed
London Swingers Adult Parties	Camden	£80 4 hours	8 to 12 every night except Monday unless a bank holiday -3 girls, sex sequential 1-1s,
Pam's Parties	Crystal palace		Not open currently.
Coffee Morning Paradise Spa	Dagenham	£50 5 hours	Mostly a swinger venue, but do their own sex parties ('coffee morning') Wed morning. Rev1 June 17 Coffee mornings and other sex parties not taking place due to Council action. Venue now closed

List of specialist venues

Name	Location	Cost	Description
Le Boudoir Club	London City		The venue A large BDSM type swingers club and venue. Greedy Girls party on Thursday's. Guilt Free Girls
The Blue Door Dungeon	Islington		The venue Guess what, it is a dungeon. Book by hour.
La Chambre	Sheffield	Single Man: £25 per person, Single Woman: £5, Couples: £25	The venue Swingers club.
House du Croix	Bristol	£30 first hour then £25.	The venue A dungeon with optional resident mistress.
Hoxton Dungeon Suite	Hoxton N1		The venue with optional resident mistress. Min booking 4 hour.
House of Poitier	Sutton		The venue A large house in Sutton. Different events are here, sometimes hosted by others. (R Ryder's LSP, Trans events, etc)
Kestrels	Heathrow		The venue a Naturist spa with pool and playrooms. See also . New Venue on Bath Road even closer to LHR.
The Paradise Spa	Dagenham		The venue a Naturist club. Now closed
Murder Mile Studio	Now Walthamstow		The venue a themed, fetish friendly photographic studio and dungeon for hire.
The Peacock Parlour	London (Caledonian Rd)	£100/2hours	The venue A Dungeon
The Private Club	Aston		The venue an adult club. Requires ID to get in.
Radlett Adult parties	Radlett (near Watford)		The venue a Swingers club.
Rio's Naturist Spa	Kentish Town (London)		The venue a Naturist spa. Old page has more pictures. Rev Had a fire in Nov 2016
The Secret Dungeon	High Wycombe		The venue a dungeon.
The Valhalla Club	Dudley (near Birmingham)		The venue a Naturist club. Above it, is Scarlets Now closed
The Vanilla Alternative	Tempsford SG19 (between Bedford and Cambridge)	£20 to £40 for normal events.	The venue a Naturist club. Debbies GG had some parties here.
Top Floor Studio	Bristol BS15	£25 per hour to use venue. Events priced by organiser	The venue a Studio. Some gangbang and swinger parties here.
Xtasia	West Bromwich	Swingers	The venue . Some gangbang and swinger parties here.

• More specialest venues here https://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/
• See also Which are the better Dungeons for hire in London? July 2023

Threads on UKP

• https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=284163.

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